This past week was a wild one; somehow the last week before the holiday break always is. I could barely catch my breath, it seemed - the office was veritably hopping with patients, which meant busy patient sessions for me and busy precepting sessions with the residents. Throw in a Joint Commission visit to our hospital and Family Health Centers, and I am most glad this work week has come to a close.
My lifelines during that hectic week came from rather unexpected places. First, one of my resident advisees wrote me a lovely Christmas card thanking me for my support and also gifted me with a bottle of wine.
Then, I received a Christmas card from a patient that I would not have expected such a token from. She frequently misses appointments and, when she does come in, I rarely get a sense of success in collaborating on her complicated medical and social issues.
Finally, I was privileged to attend the faculty development fellows' annual holiday luncheon. I definitely enjoy teaching precepting, health behavior theory, and presentation techniques to the fellows at scattered points throughout the year, but I'm not convinced that I am contributing enough to justify my attendance at this lavish meal.
There is a line from Sondheim's musical "Into the Woods" (which I was lucky enough to be in while in college) - "Every moment is of moment." How many moments with patients, with learners, with colleagues did I experience in this last week?
To have even a few such moments from the past year recognized was incredibly heartwarming. While I never want to fall into the trap of expecting such recognition - and, thereby, making that the focus of my ambition - it does feel good to be acknowledged.
The sincere generosity that these three happenings demonstrate certainly reflect more powerfully on the givers than on me, though. Those kindnesses, those little bright spots of light, made the grind of a hectic, overwhelming week more bearable.
Now I have to wonder - where can I spread a little light?
Saturday, December 18, 2010
Thursday, December 9, 2010
Supporting our colleagues through the "hurts"
I was sitting on one of the hospital's nursing units having a difficult telephone conversation. Anyone working nearby could have easily discerned the situation from my end of the call:
Patient's family member wants to keep aggressive care going for a comatose, terminally ill family member against the best advice of the medical team.
Having never had to make such a decision in my own life, I am left to imagine how heart-wrenching it must be for the family. But the ICU team and specialists caring for the patient are in agreement -- this patient will not recover. The only question is under what circumstances this patient will die.
I tried to hear the family's wishes and concerns with an open mind. I tried to compassionately share my opinion about the extremely low probability of any meaningful recovery. The ICU team had hoped that my rapport with this family would lead to a plan to withdraw care and permit a peaceful death; their conversations with the family regarding plan of care had resulted only in increasing hostility. The family member I spoke with was similarily adamant. The family will not accept any outcome short of a full recovery, I was angrily told. They expect this patient to walk out of the hospital as he/she was before, healthy and vibrant.
Being shouted at, with the clear implication that my judgment is unsound and my caring most deficient, was unpleasant to say the least. I hung up the phone and put my head into my hands. A resident sitting at the work station next to me commented, "that sounded tough." I shared the brief details of the situation and my sadness at this patient's fate of futile tubes, IV lines, and machines. The resident asked some thoughtful questions about making end-of-life decisions, and we conversed for a bit. An attending nearby commented, "sounds like the family's just not ready yet."
"It just feels like...if I could have found the right thing to say, the right way to say it, that maybe the conversation could have gone better," I responded. I didn't mind the eavesdropping at all. I had that deep, hollow feeling that comes into the pit of my stomach when a patient or family encounter doesn't go well, and it felt good to be able to share even a little of that with trusted acquaintances.
I dutifully delved back into the electronic records of our current inpatient team, signing off resident notes, looking at new labs, checking my outpatient in-box. I tried, unsuccessfully, to convince that deep, hollow feeling in my stomach to go away. Several minutes passed, and my empathizers drifted off to their other tasks.
Or so I thought. Another colleague had been quietly working at a nearby computer station. He walked up to me and said something along the lines of "listen, I couldn't help but overhear what happened on the phone, and I heard you beating yourself up about it afterward. But, it sounds to me like you did the best you could. I heard what you said to them, and it was totally appropriate.
"Some things you just can't change," he continued. (How many times have I said that to residents or medical students?) "You did the best that anyone could have done."
The deep, hollow feeling began to lose its grip on my GI tract. This colleague recognized my suppressed agony and perceived a responsibility to respond to it. With just a few kind and thoughtful words, he helped me to regain perspective on the situation.
How often do we physicians, thoughout our day-to-day lives, suffer these little (and, sometimes, very big) hurts? Sometimes we share them with each other, but sometimes we don't want to bother anyone. Sometimes we're too ashamed at our real and perceived failures.
I am grateful, today, that someone recognized and responded to my little hurt.
Patient's family member wants to keep aggressive care going for a comatose, terminally ill family member against the best advice of the medical team.
Having never had to make such a decision in my own life, I am left to imagine how heart-wrenching it must be for the family. But the ICU team and specialists caring for the patient are in agreement -- this patient will not recover. The only question is under what circumstances this patient will die.
I tried to hear the family's wishes and concerns with an open mind. I tried to compassionately share my opinion about the extremely low probability of any meaningful recovery. The ICU team had hoped that my rapport with this family would lead to a plan to withdraw care and permit a peaceful death; their conversations with the family regarding plan of care had resulted only in increasing hostility. The family member I spoke with was similarily adamant. The family will not accept any outcome short of a full recovery, I was angrily told. They expect this patient to walk out of the hospital as he/she was before, healthy and vibrant.
Being shouted at, with the clear implication that my judgment is unsound and my caring most deficient, was unpleasant to say the least. I hung up the phone and put my head into my hands. A resident sitting at the work station next to me commented, "that sounded tough." I shared the brief details of the situation and my sadness at this patient's fate of futile tubes, IV lines, and machines. The resident asked some thoughtful questions about making end-of-life decisions, and we conversed for a bit. An attending nearby commented, "sounds like the family's just not ready yet."
"It just feels like...if I could have found the right thing to say, the right way to say it, that maybe the conversation could have gone better," I responded. I didn't mind the eavesdropping at all. I had that deep, hollow feeling that comes into the pit of my stomach when a patient or family encounter doesn't go well, and it felt good to be able to share even a little of that with trusted acquaintances.
I dutifully delved back into the electronic records of our current inpatient team, signing off resident notes, looking at new labs, checking my outpatient in-box. I tried, unsuccessfully, to convince that deep, hollow feeling in my stomach to go away. Several minutes passed, and my empathizers drifted off to their other tasks.
Or so I thought. Another colleague had been quietly working at a nearby computer station. He walked up to me and said something along the lines of "listen, I couldn't help but overhear what happened on the phone, and I heard you beating yourself up about it afterward. But, it sounds to me like you did the best you could. I heard what you said to them, and it was totally appropriate.
"Some things you just can't change," he continued. (How many times have I said that to residents or medical students?) "You did the best that anyone could have done."
The deep, hollow feeling began to lose its grip on my GI tract. This colleague recognized my suppressed agony and perceived a responsibility to respond to it. With just a few kind and thoughtful words, he helped me to regain perspective on the situation.
How often do we physicians, thoughout our day-to-day lives, suffer these little (and, sometimes, very big) hurts? Sometimes we share them with each other, but sometimes we don't want to bother anyone. Sometimes we're too ashamed at our real and perceived failures.
I am grateful, today, that someone recognized and responded to my little hurt.
Tuesday, December 7, 2010
Back on the inpatient service again
It's another week supervising the inpatient resident service for your intrepid academic family medicine blogger.
I find my inpatient weeks to be among my most demanding as an attending. To do my job well, I need to:
This week, I have the added pleasure of working with one of our faculty development fellows, helping to teach him how to do all of this...and, of course, supervise his efforts and provide him with feedback as well.
It's always a fast-paced and interesting week. I really get rejuvenated by watching our outstanding residents grow while grappling with challenging situations.
One of our interns led a family meeting today for a patient who is on a ventilator and has made it explicitly clear that he doesn't want to live that way any more.
Another successfully built rapport with the initially intimidating mother of an adult son with special needs.
Our visiting medical student led a behavioral rounds interview with a patient admitted with hyponatremia (low sodium) and seizures likely caused by excessive alcohol intake.
And, the fellow and I today worked to build an alliance with a frustrated patient's wife, unhappy with the "condescending" (her descriptor) manner of the many care providers she has interacted with. Her husband is obese, and she feels that he is being unfairly treated because of his size. With a lot of validation, empathy, and summaries, we tried to give her a safe place to vent her fear and anger, and we worked with her and her husband to come up with a treatment plan agreeable to all.
From these and so many more moments, the ultimate challenge for me is choosing what to focus on as a teacher. Every single one of these episodes is positively overflowing with teaching opportunities - pathophysiology (the processes in the body responsible for disease), diagnosis, management, and, so importantly, demonstrating caring for patients and their families during the terribly stressful time of being hospitalized.
There's only so many hours in the day, though, and only so much capacity to absorb and process information at one time. Halfway through my third year as faculty, I am feeling much more comfortable with these decisions, but sometimes I still worry that I am neglecting something that should be important. That my assessments of my learners will miss some important deficiency. That we will all overlook some critical detail - or make some critical mistake - that could have devastating consequences for a patient. I like to think that the worry keeps me on my toes, at least.
So, toes, rest up tonight. Tomorrow's another big day...
I find my inpatient weeks to be among my most demanding as an attending. To do my job well, I need to:
- speak with and examine every patient on the service daily
- carefully review all lab, path, micro, etc data
- ensure that each patient's plan of care is appropriate
- review all resident documentation for quality and accuracy
- facilitate daily team round patient care discussions
- directly observe each member of the team (students, interns, senior resident) as they evaluate a patient
- provide feedback to each team member regarding his/her clinical performance
- provide feedback to the senior resident regarding team management and leadership
- discuss residency and career issues with any family medicine-interested med student
- problem-solve challenging patient and family situations
- problem-solve any resident/team cohesion issues (rare, but it has happened)
- attend to each team member's emotional needs (any burn-out? need support after a tough case?)
- ensure that residents are not violating work hour regulations
- sign every H&P, progress note, and discharge summary - and document my own thoughts
- and, of course, teach medical management of the inpatient
This week, I have the added pleasure of working with one of our faculty development fellows, helping to teach him how to do all of this...and, of course, supervise his efforts and provide him with feedback as well.
It's always a fast-paced and interesting week. I really get rejuvenated by watching our outstanding residents grow while grappling with challenging situations.
One of our interns led a family meeting today for a patient who is on a ventilator and has made it explicitly clear that he doesn't want to live that way any more.
Another successfully built rapport with the initially intimidating mother of an adult son with special needs.
Our visiting medical student led a behavioral rounds interview with a patient admitted with hyponatremia (low sodium) and seizures likely caused by excessive alcohol intake.
And, the fellow and I today worked to build an alliance with a frustrated patient's wife, unhappy with the "condescending" (her descriptor) manner of the many care providers she has interacted with. Her husband is obese, and she feels that he is being unfairly treated because of his size. With a lot of validation, empathy, and summaries, we tried to give her a safe place to vent her fear and anger, and we worked with her and her husband to come up with a treatment plan agreeable to all.
From these and so many more moments, the ultimate challenge for me is choosing what to focus on as a teacher. Every single one of these episodes is positively overflowing with teaching opportunities - pathophysiology (the processes in the body responsible for disease), diagnosis, management, and, so importantly, demonstrating caring for patients and their families during the terribly stressful time of being hospitalized.
There's only so many hours in the day, though, and only so much capacity to absorb and process information at one time. Halfway through my third year as faculty, I am feeling much more comfortable with these decisions, but sometimes I still worry that I am neglecting something that should be important. That my assessments of my learners will miss some important deficiency. That we will all overlook some critical detail - or make some critical mistake - that could have devastating consequences for a patient. I like to think that the worry keeps me on my toes, at least.
So, toes, rest up tonight. Tomorrow's another big day...
Tuesday, November 30, 2010
Still a doctor first
Tuesdays are typically the least predictable day of the week for me, randomly filled with meetings, teaching, and touring. Since our hospital, outpatient Family Health Centers (FHCs), and medical school are not on the same physical site, my travel time back and forth among these places also plays a role.
For example, when I woke up today, my schedule looked like this:
7:30-8:15 breakfast meeting with our residency recruitment coordinator
8:15-8:45 travel time to my office (in one of our FHCs)
8:45-10:45 administrative time - answer e-mails, check EHR in-box, work on new QI curriculum
10:45-11:00 travel time to the hospital
11:00-11:15 review residency applicant files for afternoon tour
11:15-11:30 discuss a CME proposal with CME coordinator
11:30-1:00 facilitate a patient communication session for our residents on breaking bad news
1:00-1:30 grab lunch, check e-mails
1:30-3:30 tour residency applicants to our outpatient FHCs
3:30-4:00 meet with hospital communications director re: eVisit implementation
4:00-4:15 travel back to office
4:15-5:30ish assist with finishing up afternoon precepting, follow up on EHR in-box
When I arrived to my office after my breakfast meeting this morning and logged into my e-mail, I was greeted with an automated admission notification for one of my patients. My patient was not admitted to our hospital but to another in the system. The admission diagnosis: cardiac arrest.
Needless to say, I spent the next half-hour contacting the nursing unit, speaking with the intensivist, learning what happened: arrest at home, CPR by family members, "successfully" resuscitated in the Emergency Department. Now on pressors and intubated. I provided the intensivist with my patient's medical history and had my staff send over records.
All of those other things on today's schedule paled in importance with what I had to do, now, for my patient. Calling the family. Telling my office staff. This afternoon, I was able to carve out enough time to drive over and visit my patient. I don't have privileges at this hospital but was glad to be greeted warmly by staff and physicians there.
I love being an academic family doc. The variety of my day-to-day life, the opportunity to indulge in multiple interests throughout the week - it all energizes and inspires me. I only spend about 30% of my week in direct care of my own patient panel. Have no doubt, though, that that 30% supersedes everything else that I do.
True, I am also a teacher, preceptor, writer, tour guide/recruiter, researcher, EHR implementer, hospital CME committee member, health center administrator. Whether they are my current patients or our residents' and students' future ones, though, ultimately everything circles back to the patients.
I am still a doctor first.
For example, when I woke up today, my schedule looked like this:
7:30-8:15 breakfast meeting with our residency recruitment coordinator
8:15-8:45 travel time to my office (in one of our FHCs)
8:45-10:45 administrative time - answer e-mails, check EHR in-box, work on new QI curriculum
10:45-11:00 travel time to the hospital
11:00-11:15 review residency applicant files for afternoon tour
11:15-11:30 discuss a CME proposal with CME coordinator
11:30-1:00 facilitate a patient communication session for our residents on breaking bad news
1:00-1:30 grab lunch, check e-mails
1:30-3:30 tour residency applicants to our outpatient FHCs
3:30-4:00 meet with hospital communications director re: eVisit implementation
4:00-4:15 travel back to office
4:15-5:30ish assist with finishing up afternoon precepting, follow up on EHR in-box
When I arrived to my office after my breakfast meeting this morning and logged into my e-mail, I was greeted with an automated admission notification for one of my patients. My patient was not admitted to our hospital but to another in the system. The admission diagnosis: cardiac arrest.
Needless to say, I spent the next half-hour contacting the nursing unit, speaking with the intensivist, learning what happened: arrest at home, CPR by family members, "successfully" resuscitated in the Emergency Department. Now on pressors and intubated. I provided the intensivist with my patient's medical history and had my staff send over records.
All of those other things on today's schedule paled in importance with what I had to do, now, for my patient. Calling the family. Telling my office staff. This afternoon, I was able to carve out enough time to drive over and visit my patient. I don't have privileges at this hospital but was glad to be greeted warmly by staff and physicians there.
I love being an academic family doc. The variety of my day-to-day life, the opportunity to indulge in multiple interests throughout the week - it all energizes and inspires me. I only spend about 30% of my week in direct care of my own patient panel. Have no doubt, though, that that 30% supersedes everything else that I do.
True, I am also a teacher, preceptor, writer, tour guide/recruiter, researcher, EHR implementer, hospital CME committee member, health center administrator. Whether they are my current patients or our residents' and students' future ones, though, ultimately everything circles back to the patients.
I am still a doctor first.
Monday, November 29, 2010
When your Sunday brunch server is also your patient
My husband and I went to brunch yesterday at restaurant close to our home. We had just picked up our menus when our server came to greet us and, just as I recognized her as one of my patients, she proclaimed, "you're my doctor!"
"Doctor mode" instantly switched on, quite avolitionally. "Hi!" I heard myself say. "It's great to see you. How are things?"
Just as if we were in the office, our server/my patient comfortably launched into an update on her recent medical issues.
And then, she caught herself and switched gears. "Oh, I'm sorry. What would you like to drink?"
I'm sure that this scenario is a common one for many family docs. For me, though, as a suburban dweller working in an urban family health center, I rarely encounter my patients outside of the clinical setting. My neighborhood haunts are several miles away from theirs. I don't typically shop in their grocery store or walk on their streets...or run into them at a restaurant.
So, this scenario was a bit awkward for me. I worried about my patient - will she feel extra concern about taking care of us as customers? She might have thought that this bit of role reversal was somewhat odd.
I worried about myself, too. Better be on my best behavior, be extra polite, and leave a good tip. After all, she might judge my multiple buffet trips - filling my plates with eggs, bacon, french toast, prime rib, and bread pudding - when she's heard me counsel her about healthy lifestyles!
These thoughts were fleeting, though. "Doctor mode" somehow turned right off at the sight of that buffet, and my husband and I chatted airily about our Thanksgiving travels and the morning's church service.
When our server/my patient brought the check, I offered that I'd be happy to see her in the office to discuss her issues. She seemed pleased, and the encounter ended on an upbeat note.
And, yes, we did leave a very good tip.
"Doctor mode" instantly switched on, quite avolitionally. "Hi!" I heard myself say. "It's great to see you. How are things?"
Just as if we were in the office, our server/my patient comfortably launched into an update on her recent medical issues.
And then, she caught herself and switched gears. "Oh, I'm sorry. What would you like to drink?"
I'm sure that this scenario is a common one for many family docs. For me, though, as a suburban dweller working in an urban family health center, I rarely encounter my patients outside of the clinical setting. My neighborhood haunts are several miles away from theirs. I don't typically shop in their grocery store or walk on their streets...or run into them at a restaurant.
So, this scenario was a bit awkward for me. I worried about my patient - will she feel extra concern about taking care of us as customers? She might have thought that this bit of role reversal was somewhat odd.
I worried about myself, too. Better be on my best behavior, be extra polite, and leave a good tip. After all, she might judge my multiple buffet trips - filling my plates with eggs, bacon, french toast, prime rib, and bread pudding - when she's heard me counsel her about healthy lifestyles!
These thoughts were fleeting, though. "Doctor mode" somehow turned right off at the sight of that buffet, and my husband and I chatted airily about our Thanksgiving travels and the morning's church service.
When our server/my patient brought the check, I offered that I'd be happy to see her in the office to discuss her issues. She seemed pleased, and the encounter ended on an upbeat note.
And, yes, we did leave a very good tip.
Wednesday, November 24, 2010
Welcome!
As an academic family physician, the daily workings of my career are a mystery to many of my family, friends, and even my private practice colleagues. Shows like "Gray's Anatomy" give a sensationalized (albeit entertaining!) account of the US medical education system, carefully altered to appeal to the masses.
The realities of my day-to-day life are alternatively more mundane and thrilling than any TV show has yet managed to capture.
In this blog, I'll share tales of my patient care, teaching, research, advising, testing, recruiting, QI-ing, problem-solving, and assistant Family Health Center directing. I probably won't be able to resist commenting upon some non-medical topics as well.
So, follow along as I describe life as junior faculty in a family medicine residency program! Given the unpredictability of my life, I'm not comfortable committing to a regular post every day/week/whenever, though, so keep an eye out on your blog reader for updates (and I'll tweet when there's something new as well: @SingingPenDrJen).
Thanks for stopping by!
(N.B. I will take the utmost care to preserve the anonymity of my patients, learners, and colleagues along the way.)
The realities of my day-to-day life are alternatively more mundane and thrilling than any TV show has yet managed to capture.
In this blog, I'll share tales of my patient care, teaching, research, advising, testing, recruiting, QI-ing, problem-solving, and assistant Family Health Center directing. I probably won't be able to resist commenting upon some non-medical topics as well.
So, follow along as I describe life as junior faculty in a family medicine residency program! Given the unpredictability of my life, I'm not comfortable committing to a regular post every day/week/whenever, though, so keep an eye out on your blog reader for updates (and I'll tweet when there's something new as well: @SingingPenDrJen).
Thanks for stopping by!
(N.B. I will take the utmost care to preserve the anonymity of my patients, learners, and colleagues along the way.)
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